A quick prayer to keep with you as you go about your daily life

Loving Lord, help us this month to love one another, just as you first loved us. Guide my every word and action so that my children will see your love in all I say and do. Thank you for loving us all. Amen.




 



Scripture to guide your steps this month

So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. Be even-tempered, content with second place, quick to forgive an offense. Forgive as quickly and completely as the Master forgave you. And regardless of what else you put on, wear love. It's your basic, all-purpose garment. Never be without it. [Colossians 3:12]


Don’t Miss this Seminar

Revolutionary ParentingDo you want to be a better parent? CCN will be broadcasting a live parenting development seminar on Saturday, March 14, 2009, featuring respected parenting educators George Barna, John Townsend, Jim Burns, and Steve and Valerie Bell. These outstanding speakers will focus on child development and parental responsibilities and opportunities in the Revolutionary Parenting Simulcast offered in partnership with CCN. Our children are the future – future Christians, future leaders, future citizens and voters. We must do all that we can to raise a generation of spiritual champions. Bring Revolutionary Parenting to help parents, grandparents, teachers, and ministry leaders in your community learn how this is being done. Host this live simulcast event at your church! For more information on this life-changing event, click here.

Teaching Kindness and Empathy to Children

EmpathyWritten by Linda Morgan
We live in a world that's downright daunting. Expressions like "lockdown" and "road rage" have become part of the American lexicon. Fear-driven parents are left to search far and wide for safe havens for their children; havens where troubles melt like lemon drops and cyber-predators don't lurk in MySpace. Read more

Encouraging Kindness in Children

Empathyby Abbi Perets
When my 2-and-a-half-year-old daughter wakes up, the first person she looks for is her 10-month-old sister. My daughters shower each other with kisses and hugs all day long. They follow each other around the house, cry if they are separated, and empathize with each other constantly. Am I just lucky? Maybe. But I believe my children are kind to each other because of the examples my husband and I set for them every day. We encourage kindness in our children by practicing it as a way of life. Read more

How to Teach Empathy

  • Empathy
  • Show empathy to your children. Young children (like all of us) love to receive empathy. Research shows that parenting with empathy and emotional guidance encourages healthy emotional growth.
  • Provide simple, clear explanations about how other people feel when they are sad or hurt. This is especially important if your child has caused these feelings in another. ("It makes Carlos feel bad when you call him names.") When this happens, be firm as you explain how these feelings work.
  • Be a good role model for empathy. Children are some of the best copycats around, and they are likely to copy the ways they see you treat people.
  • Praise your toddler's early acts of empathy -- they are wonderful signs of learning to care about other people. When your toddler gives up his favorite toy to a younger sibling who's crying, make sure he knows you appreciate his action.
  • Don't expect empathy every time -- young children are still learning how emotions work, and how people get along with others. Encourage empathy -- but don't expect perfection.

[Source: Talaris Research Institute]

The Caring Child: How to Teach Empathy

Empathyby Mary VanClay
What to expect at this age
Kids don't have the cognitive skills to truly understand the concept of empathy until they're 8 or 9. But 5-year-olds, usually highly preoccupied with fairness, are concerned about being treated well, and they want others — friends, strangers, even characters in books — to be treated well too. Here's how to nurture these budding displays of empathy. Read more

It’s Always Cool to Be Kind: Top 10 Tips to Share With Your Children


How Do I Stand in Your Shoes?

by Diane Peters
Wouldn’t it be wonderful to live in a kind world? A place where everyone said sweet words, doors were always held open, there was no bullying, and peace reigned supreme. Sure, that’s a dream world, but it’s one you can at least aim for creating with your kids. Read more

Teaching Kindness to Our Children

Empathyby Kevin Goh
Kindness comes from within. It is a sign of love, respect and concern. Showing compassion and gentleness towards others help children form and maintain positive relationships and maintain friendships. In turn, children feel important and acknowledged, and become confident individuals...Read More

Raising a Caring and Compassionate Child

How Do I Stand in Your Shoes?From Scholastic.com
Like many things, kindness isa quality that children learn over time and through practice. Thankfully, there are many things you can do to encourage your child to be a kinder, gentler person...Read more

Family 'round the Table Family 'round the Table is a resource which provides your family with great ways to grow spiritually.
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